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Betty asks…

My 2 year virtual relationship online…?

I met my boyfriend online; we’ve been together for 2 two years, but recently he stopped contacting me and have failed to respond to any of my e-mails. It’s been 5 weeks that I haven’t heard from him and feel depressed and angry by his lack of maturity.

I love him and we enjoy having this virtual relationship.

I try to think about what I might have done that upset him but I can’t find any answer; He’s been a great sport helping me through the most difficult time; even though he’s not here. I live in Great Britain; my boyfriend lives in South Africa.

I realise that I will need to move on and forget him. Your advice would be most appreciated by me, please help me?
E-mailing is not the communication that we used but also used chat lines.

We sent each other pictures of ourselves.

I was on the verge of commit suicide before I met him; but he helped me to move on from my history of abuse even though he was online, he was always there to talk.

I owe him so much more than what we have now; should I walk away?

admin answers:

I think you may love him because he has helped you through what was the most difficult time of your life and that is understandable. HE gave you your life back and you just would marry him given the chance and now he has left you feeling abandoned your are in midair not knowing the truth and it is this i feel you need in order to move on In someway you may have helped him to gain more confidence through helping you hopefully you are stronger now but you did this with the knowledge someone cared over the Internet think then how you would feel if you broke free from this man and decided to go out and meet new friends who in time you will learn to trust( but have a face to face conversation and laughs with) you could try a last effort to e-mail or if he supplied you with his home address write and if no response it would be his loss good luck

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